Hey everyone, it's mid-autumn festival...
Had your mooncake?
I'm glad that this year i can celebrate it with my family at home.
Wish all of you "rangers" will be blessed as well,
Take care!
p.s. I'm having my 3 month's holiday now
Do buy me a drink if you happen to be in Tawau.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Thursday, April 30, 2009
36 STRESS REDUCERS----Author Unknown
1. Pray
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and uncluttered your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you to do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.,
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut.) This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough exercise.
18. Eat right.
19. Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
21. Write thoughts and inspirations down.
22. Everyday, find time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until its time to go to bed to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you, Jesus!"
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but yourself, not at all.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33. Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
36. Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.
** GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU **
PRAYER
Lord, grant us an open heart to accept whatever we have in our lives
so that we may gain the peace and joy promised by your word.
________________________________________
PASSION 4 A VISION
SEE IT, COMMIT IT, DO IT
Some People Dream of Making A Difference
Others Stay Awake & Do It
2. Go to bed on time.
3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.
4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule or that will compromise your mental health.
5. Delegate tasks to capable others.
6. Simplify and uncluttered your life.
7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)
8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.
9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.
10. Take one day at a time.
11. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you to do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.
12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.
13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.,
14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut.) This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.
15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.
16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.
17. Get enough exercise.
18. Eat right.
19. Get organized so everything has its place.
20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.
21. Write thoughts and inspirations down.
22. Everyday, find time to be alone.
23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until its time to go to bed to try and pray.
24. Make friends with Godly people.
25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.
26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you, Jesus!"
27. Laugh.
28. Laugh some more!
29. Take your work seriously, but yourself, not at all.
30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).
31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).
32. Sit on your ego.
33. Talk less; listen more.
34. Slow down.
35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.
36. Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before.
** GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU **
PRAYER
Lord, grant us an open heart to accept whatever we have in our lives
so that we may gain the peace and joy promised by your word.
________________________________________
PASSION 4 A VISION
SEE IT, COMMIT IT, DO IT
Some People Dream of Making A Difference
Others Stay Awake & Do It
Friday, March 27, 2009
Respect
Some people just don't know how to respect others.
Give an inch took a yard.
I'm really fed up with the way she conduct herself
Come on,
if i did the same thing you do unto me,
I believe you won't even take it for one week.
I'd been suffering for nearly a year!
Can you be fair?
i didn't even talk loudly in front of you after all your missconduct,
but can you at least show some respect?
Please don't make me dislike you!
Why should I always be the one to give way for you?
Why can't you give way for me just for once?
i'm really fustrated now,
and i know i'm like a walking bomb.
I hope that i won't have to explode in front of you some day
else you'll be in hot soup.
This is the most i can do to maintain our friendship,
leaving you is the best way for me
if you still treat me as a friend,
please respect me for heaven's sake,
just two more months then that's it,
I won't be part of your daily life
and you won't be mine.
Thank you!
Give an inch took a yard.
I'm really fed up with the way she conduct herself
Come on,
if i did the same thing you do unto me,
I believe you won't even take it for one week.
I'd been suffering for nearly a year!
Can you be fair?
i didn't even talk loudly in front of you after all your missconduct,
but can you at least show some respect?
Please don't make me dislike you!
Why should I always be the one to give way for you?
Why can't you give way for me just for once?
i'm really fustrated now,
and i know i'm like a walking bomb.
I hope that i won't have to explode in front of you some day
else you'll be in hot soup.
This is the most i can do to maintain our friendship,
leaving you is the best way for me
if you still treat me as a friend,
please respect me for heaven's sake,
just two more months then that's it,
I won't be part of your daily life
and you won't be mine.
Thank you!
Friday, October 17, 2008
IF
IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
--Rudyard Kipling
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
--Rudyard Kipling
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
New place, new Blues...
Now I'm staying at Kampar, Perak.
I never know how different it is to stay outside , ALONE.
I'm in the process of learning how to communicate with my roommate and housemates.
I'm trying to keep a low profile in class.
I'm hoping to find a true friend like princess Wullum.
However, it is to n o avail.
People still criticise me,
Not willing to share with me their feelings
Even talking might be a form of "Acting".
I felt very sad and hurt,
knowing that some of my actions and words
are are being misunderstood and twisted by people.
I know i can never go back to the past,
I just pray that everything will be fine soon.
After all, I'm going to spend the rest of my 3 years here.
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Goodbye
To TB4:
I was indeed blessed to be able to edit this final chapter of our foundation in UTAR.
You ask me, why I took all the trouble to make CD, forcing you guys to write your feelings and send me pictures? It is because I know that this is part of your wishes deep in your hearts. I’m not as natural and unrestrained like others that can simply move on like nothing happened before. While editing this CD, I have the opportunity to look back all the pictures that we took together, videos recorded, and all the words that you guys make an effort t express yourself. First of all, I would like to seek for apologies if I have directly or indirectly hurt, insulted or offended you especially Chris, Mei Zhi, and Shawn. I don’t wish that the next time we meet each other, we are still like enemies. Words of thanksgiving I have a lot to say but sorry, I’m not able to list down one by one. I just want you guys to know, though some time I might be forceful but my intention is for everyone’s benefit. We can never tell what will happen tomorrow but I pray that God will protect my friends, bless them with good health, love, joy, hope, peace and security. I love you guys, really! I cannot imagine campus life without you guys... I have nothing much for you guys, just this CD as a token of appreciation to all of you. Sorry for not typing the Chinese versions out because I’m very exhausted now. I didn’t sleep well for 3 days straight. Thank you for all the support, love and blessing you gave. Thank you Yee Mun, Yanny, Jonnie, Eugenia, Shawn, Oi Chien, Mei Chiun, Sew Lan, Nisha, Kwan Yi, Sieng Mee, Zhong Zhu, Chin Fei , Chin Yee, Mei Zhi, Chris, Xue Ni, Li Ning, Yong Seng, Li Xiu, Belle, Kwan Yi and our good old friends Zhen Qi and Aki(sorry for the rush for your part... very sorry...) Take care and may God bless you all! A quote to share, “Remember what you should remember; forget what you should forget. Change what you can change; accept what that is unchangeable.” Goodbye my friends!
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Why?!
I never realized that life is so fragile until today...
My auntie dropped the bombshell,
telling us that our cousin brother is diagnosed as a lung cancer patient.
It is not an April fool, it is the truth and I have to accept it; but how?
He was the only male cousin which I found comfortable communicating with,
he was the only one who never says no to my requests,
the worst thing is, he is getting married on 12/4/08...
I really couldn't accept this fact that he is going to leave me sooner than I thought.
Now, the only thing I can do is to pray for him. Why am i so useless?!
Life is short, really...
No one can predict what is going to happen next second,
and yet we have to live on with the fact that we are going to die soon.
I thank God that I am sure where I am heading to,
how about my friend and my relatives
More importantly, how about you?
I'm very worried...
My auntie dropped the bombshell,
telling us that our cousin brother is diagnosed as a lung cancer patient.
It is not an April fool, it is the truth and I have to accept it; but how?
He was the only male cousin which I found comfortable communicating with,
he was the only one who never says no to my requests,
the worst thing is, he is getting married on 12/4/08...
I really couldn't accept this fact that he is going to leave me sooner than I thought.
Now, the only thing I can do is to pray for him. Why am i so useless?!
Life is short, really...
No one can predict what is going to happen next second,
and yet we have to live on with the fact that we are going to die soon.
I thank God that I am sure where I am heading to,
how about my friend and my relatives
More importantly, how about you?
I'm very worried...
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